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Living with War       

 

In Memory of Marsha McGlon Morgan 

June 3, 1939-May 13, 2006

 

Back in the days of shock and awe

We came to liberate them all

History was the cruel judge of overconfidence

Back in the days of shock and awe

--Neil Young

 

Neil Young’s “Living with War,” album blared from our car’s CD player. Anti-war lyrics backed with drums, choir, and rock guitar.

My husband Steve was groovin’. “This is the way music used to be,” he said. “This was mainstream in my day.”

Neil Young (of Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young fame) had just released his take on the war in Iraq and war in general. The songs ran the gamut from social critique (“Restless Consumer”), to a poignant tribute to a friend who died in Vietnam (“Roger and Out”), to pointed political criticism (“Let’s Impeach the President”). The CD ended with a 100-voice choir singing “America the Beautiful.”

It was fitting that this music was the soundtrack as we drove to the hospital. Our friend Marsha, a long-time peace activist, lay in the ICU. Marsha has stood with the Women in Black, handed out anti-war leaflets in front of churches and schools, and helped the homeless register to vote.

She is a constant and uncompromising voice for peace. When people at our parish say, “Yes, but we don’t want to offend anyone,” she says, “Jesus didn’t worry about offending people.”

We found her alert but unable to speak due to the tubes in her throat. She motioned for a white board. “Tell everyone I am at peace,” she wrote, “but I want to get out of here and have some fun.”

That afternoon, I picked up Lucas and Gabe at school, peace music still playing.

“Is that Daddy’s new CD?” Gabe asked. “Cool.”

They huddled over the lyrics.

“Do you know what he means by shock and awe?” I asked. “When the war started, the first bombings were called shock and awe. Remember?”

They shrugged.

We’d been at this war so long they couldn’t remember the beginning. That bothered me. It was too much like Vietnam had been to me as a child--a war with no beginning and no end.

I thought back to a column I wrote more than three years ago, before the invasion of Iraq. In “Giving Peace a Chance,” I described taking the boys to a peace vigil at Green Lake. Joining with Catholic nuns, Quaker activists, and Buddhist monks, we waved our No Iraq War signs and stood and prayed for peace.

“As Christians, we’re called to be peacemakers,” I wrote. “As citizens, we have the privilege and responsibility to speak up for what we believe.”

In that liberal Seattle neighborhood, we got mostly thumbs up and peace signs from the people who drove by.

But to my surprise, when the column was published, I got email from people who said I was unpatriotic and un-Christian and certainly didn’t belong in a Catholic newspaper.

What do those people think today? Have they changed their minds?

Much of the country has. Back in March 2003, three-quarters of Americans supported the invasion of Iraq. But now, after the deaths of more than 2,400 U.S. soldiers and a cost of $170 billion--not to mention the fact that Saddam Hussein had no weapons of mass destruction and no ties to the Sept. 11 attack--that support has dwindled.

Today nearly 60 percent say the war was a mistake.

Thousands of children scarred for life

Millions of tears for a soldier’s wife

Both sides are losing now. Heaven takes them in

Thousands of children scarred for life

The CD rolled on. Daddy’s music. Marsha’s voice. May they never be silenced.

© 2006 Christine Dubois

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